This is a basic timeline for a 4-hour reception including ceremony outline. This timeline is perfect if you are planning a day wedding. Using this article during your wedding planning process will give you a basic outline of how your wedding should flow. There is also wedding advice to help you decide the best time situations for your wedding.
Ceremony
Planning the first hour of your wedding is quite simple. The first hour usually covers your ceremony, formal photographs, and introductions at the reception site, if you are not going far. During wedding planning for a four-hour wedding make sure that your guests and you will not have far to travel between the ceremony and reception. This will save a lot of time, and not rush your formal photos.
Reception
There are many ways you can arrange the order of events during a wedding reception. The timeline below is the best one I have seen done. I even used this layout for my wedding. While planning your wedding, make sure you do not want to add in any special activities that will adjust the times listed.
2 hour:
Toast – best man, maid of honor, and all others toast in honor of the newly wed couple
Meal period – music is played during the catering and meal period
3 hour:
First dance – the newly weds dance
Father/daughter dance – bride and her father dance
Open dancing – all others dance; if you would like the groom and his mother or grandparents to dance together then right after the father/ daughter dance or during their dance is appropriate
4 hour:
Cake cutting – bride and groom cut the cake
Bouquet/garter toss – (optional) these days not a lot of couples do traditional tosses or any at all
5 hour:
Last dance – the bride and groom dance the last dance of their wedding
Wedding Timeline Advice
~Make sure that everyone you hire for your wedding is on the same timeline. Include wedding photographer, musicians, and caterer.
~Make sure that the guest book is right in view at both the ceremony and reception sites.
~Make seating charts and table cards easy to read.
~Have hors d’oeurves out after the ceremony.
~The best man proposes the first toast.
~The wedding party table gets served food first then brides parents table, grooms parents table, then all others.
~Remember that the bride and groom have the first dance then the guests.
~Parents of the bride and groom gather personal belongings and gifts before leaving.