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5 Ways to Do Jewish at your Non-Jewish/Interfaith Wedding!

By Next Big Bridal Blogger finalist, Michele Schwartz of The Modern Jewish Wedding

Mazel Tov! You’re engaged! You are starting your Pinterest boards, buying up every wedding magazine on the stands and book marking all the best wedding blogs! There’s only one hitch—you are Jewish, and your fiancé isn’t.

But no need to worry, because by adding Jew-ish touches to your wedding and reception, you can honor both sides and have everyone “Kvelling” in no time! Here are five uncomplicated & fun ways to incorporate Jewish wedding traditions into your special day:

1. Find an interfaith Ketubah! There are Ketubot written in English with no mention of God or religious beliefs. Every couple should agree to love, commitment and laughter (three things the Ketubah represents); it’s good for the soul!

2. Have your parents walk you down the aisle. Every Jewish mother dreams of the day she’ll walk her child down the aisle (wearing a dress that’s the envy of all her friends). Don’t deprive her of this proud moment! Plus, your soon to be in-laws will no doubt find it charming, thereby giving you some serious brownie points!

3. Have a chuppah! The chuppah represents your new home and forms a beautiful, striking central space for the wedding ceremony. Also, designing a chuppah will be a special way for you both to create something symbolic and beautiful together. Just add it in to the floral budget and enjoy the experience.

4. Step on the glass! Since even Jews can’t agree on why we break a glass at a Jewish wedding, there’s really no reason not to include the tradition. It’s fun!  Everyone shouts “Mazel Tov” and claps. Who doesn’t want a standing ovation at the wedding?

5. Do the Hora at the wedding reception. Since there’s no religious significance—consider the Hora just a fabulous dance. The Hora is a fun way to get the party started and gets everyone onto the dance floor. Feeling really brave? Include the part of the dance where you & your parents are lifted high above friends and family in chairs!

One bonus idea: participate in Yihud.  Immediately following the ceremony, spend 15 minutes in private with your new spouse! The tradition (meaning seclusion) will give you some much needed alone time,  so take advantage of it! Trust me—your non-Jewish spouse will thank you later for including this sweet Jewish tradition into your special day!

How do you plan to ‘mix-it-up’ on your wedding day? Have you and your fiancé discussed ways to share your interfaith celebration in a meaningful way that respects both belief systems?


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