Published Sep 15, 2009
Special to OneWed from Whiteflash.com
If you are in the market for a unique ring or diamond setting, have an idea for something different and spectacular but don’t know where to start – read on to find out why going the custom design way may be right for you.
1: Use “old” to make “new”.
Did you inherit an engagement ring
from your grandmother or a diamond wedding band
from another woman in your family? The “antique” pieces carry a lot of sentimental value. Wouldn’t it be wonderful to “re-purpose” all of these diamonds in your own ring?
Work with your jewelry designer to incorporate the stones into the new engagement ring. Your ring will not only be unique, but will carry a part of special memory of your family.
2: You love your friend’s engagement ring, but don’t want to be a copycat.
You don’t have to. Talk to a jewelry designer about the ring you admire; describe everything you like about it. You probably love the style rather than the details. Or is it the stark simplicity or the intricate filigree details? Think style and you will end up with an engagement ring that fits your dreams.
3: You don’t want a traditional engagement ring; you are a trend-setter.
The plain Tiffany-style engagement ring is just not for you. How about a three-stone ring, with a larger diamond in the center and two smaller diamonds on the sides? Just not your style?
How many jewelry stores have you visited looking for that “different” ring? Ten? Twenty? If you think you will never find it, you are probably right. When you have something very specific in mind, chances are it is not in a jewelry showcase.
It is time to talk to Whiteflash.com, an online diamond boutique specializing in custom designed engagement rings and wedding bands. Describe your vision and we will create a CAD (computer aided design) image that is specific to your specifications and wants! After you approve we create the custom designed ring by hand!
4: You want to be able to remember not only where the ring was bought, but also how it was made.
You want to be part of every step in your engagement process and don’t want any surprises. You want the process of designing your engagement ring to be memorable and need to be involved in the creation process.
Custom-designing an engagement ring is not simply a process, it is a journey. Stay involved from the sketch, to a wax model, to casting, to selecting all the stones.
5: You love what the Hollywood actresses are wearing.
Did you fall in love with one of the engagement rings worn by a celebrity? Yet realistically, you and your fiancé-to-be cannot afford either one of those.
It’s time to compromise. Would you be happy with an engagement ring in which a pink diamond is replaced with a pink sapphire? Still prefer a diamond
as a center stone? How about scaling the ring down and forgoing some of the finer details? A good jewelry designer will be able to offer many options and help you remain within your budget.
6: Details only known to you.
Are there things you want in your engagement ring that you don’t want other people to see? Like a little ruby stone you received in your pre-engagement ring years ago? A detail like this is important and meaningful to you but you may prefer to keep it private.
Certainly, this is a challenge, but not for a good designer. If you are custom-making your engagement ring, ask the designer to place the stones, initials, or dates into the ring’s gallery, the part located just under the stone of your ring. The gallery makes the ring smooth on the inside, the construction stronger, and it is a great place to keep the things that are meaningful to you away from other people’s eyes.
7: You like Period Jewelry but don’t want an engagement ring from an estate collection.
Think about what is it that attracts you to a style you so admire. If you decide to custom-make your engagement ring, tell your jewelry designer which time period or style you want your engagement ring to adhere to and he/she will guide you through the rest of the process.
8: You know a jeweler whose work you have always admired.
You are lucky. Just as a trusted doctor or an attorney, a good jewelry designer is not easy to find. Has the designer made any pieces for you in the past? Do your family members always speak highly of that jeweler? Have you seen their work and fell in love with the style and quality of craftsmanship?
If you were lucky to find a good jeweler — stick with him/her!
9: Use your artistic abilities.
Can you sketch the engagement ring of your dreams? Terrific! An experienced designer will take you and your idea in the right direction, and together, you can make your dream a reality.
Keep in mind that sometimes, what looks great on paper should not be made in metal. Your designer should tell you if some parts of the ring would be too thin and structurally unsound, or the design would jeopardize the security of the stones.
10: You have no idea of what you want in your engagement ring.
You are not alone and now there is homework to be done. Start by viewing engagement ring designs online and determining the styles that make you feel comfortable. Also, look at engagement rings in bridal magazines and imagine them on your finger.
So what do you do if you like the band (called a shank) in one ring, the box holding the center stone in another, and the way the side stones are set in a third ring?
A good designer will help you sort out the details and create a ring for you to enjoy and to be proud of.