I'm a profoundly geeky wedding photographer living and working in the Detroit area. My weddings are hip, different, and a hell of a good time.
I believe that your wedding day should be a reflection of you, and I'm hoping that when you look in the mirror, you see someone having fun.
I try to catch the moments between the moments, and sometimes even the moments between those "between" moments. But never the moments between those between between moments. That's ridiculous.
I think that besides your new spouse, your photographer is who you see the most on your wedding day. It pays to make sure they're not a clod. (The photographer, I mean....you should have already vetted the spouse).